不可不知!最糟的握手禁忌! (The Top 10 Bad Business Handshakes)



你知道什麼是很糟糕的握手禁忌嗎??
嘿嘿!!我們是不是曾經也這樣做過呢? ^^"






影片簡介:

商務禮儀的3A原則,是商務禮儀的立足資本,是美國學者布吉尼教授提出來的。3A原則實際上是強調在商務交往中處理人際關係最重要的需要註意的問題。

  第一原則接受對方。告訴我們在商務交往中不能只見到物而忘掉人。強調人的重要性,要註意人際關係的處理,不然就會影響商務交往的效果。3A原則是講對交往對象尊重的三大途徑。第一接受對方,寬一待人,不要難為對方,讓對方難看,客人永遠是對的。比如在交談時有“三不准”:不要打斷別人;不要輕易的補充對方;不要隨意更正對方,因為事物的答案有時不止一個。一般而言,不是原則性的話,要儘量接受對方。

  第二原則重視對方。欣賞對方。要看到對方的優點,不要專找對方的缺點,更不能當眾指正。重視對方的技巧:一是在人際交往中要善於使用尊稱,稱行政職務,技術職稱,凡尊稱;二是記住對方,比如接過名片要看,記不住時,千萬不可張冠李戴。

  第三原則贊美對方。對交往對象應該給予的一種贊美和肯定,懂得欣賞別人的人實際上是在欣賞自己。贊美對方也有技巧:一是實事求是,不能太誇張,二是適應對方,要誇到點子上。




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If you're in business, you shake a lot of hands. 

So what does your handshake say about you and thepeople you're doing business with? 

So what does your handshake say about you and thepeople you're doing business with? 

Find out as we countdown the Top 10 Bad BusinessHandshakes. 

Here we go with number 10, 'The Sweaty Palmer'. 

A potential deal-breaker, you can't escape this nervous,sweaty grip fast enough. 

Yes, wipe that off. 

Number 9: 'The Lobster Claw'. 

Number 9: 'The Lobster Claw'. 

When this person shakes your hand 

they pinch your hand between their thumb and fingers. 

It's as if they're picking up a canapé. 

Definitely no good if you're allergic to shellfish. 

At number 8 we've got 'The Fist Bump'. 

Nothing says "I'm business savvy" like a fist bump. And'Exploding it'? 

Nothing says "I'm business savvy" like a fist bump. And'Exploding it'? 

Nothing says "I'm business savvy" like a fist bump. And'Exploding it'? 

Well, that's just not suitable at all, ever. 

Number 7: 'The Wrestler'. 

He flips his hand on top of yours to assert hisdominance. Rumour has it this is the guy who put the "I"in team. 

He flips his hand on top of yours to assert hisdominance. Rumour has it this is the guy who put the "I"in team. 

He flips his hand on top of yours to assert hisdominance. Rumour has it this is the guy who put the "I"in team. 

At number 6 it's 'The Phantom'. Wow, that was quick. 

At number 6 it's 'The Phantom'. Wow, that was quick. 

At number 6 it's 'The Phantom'. Wow, that was quick. 

Let's slow it down to see what happened there...Ah-huh, 

clearly she's got more important places to be and moreimportant people to see. 

clearly she's got more important places to be and moreimportant people to see. 

clearly she's got more important places to be and moreimportant people to see. 

'The Lingerer' drops in at number 5. 

There's shaking hands and then there's holding hands. 

Obviously, the Lingerer has no idea which is which. 

Obviously, the Lingerer has no idea which is which. 

Obviously, the Lingerer has no idea which is which. 

Awwwkward. 

Number 4: 'The 'Decliner'. 

Number 4: 'The 'Decliner'. 

Decliners are fastidious folk. 

They won't touch a doorknob without sanitising it, letalone shake hands. 

Number 3: 'The Tickler'. Everything appears normalenough, and then something feels a bit odd... 

Number 3: 'The Tickler'. Everything appears normalenough, and then something feels a bit odd... 

Number 3: 'The Tickler'. Everything appears normalenough, and then something feels a bit odd... 

it's their middle finger stroking the palm of your hand. 

In second place it's 'The Vice'. 

Once you escape the crushing grip of the Vice, youcan't 

help but feel sorry for him. He must feel terriblyinadequate to shake hands like that. 

help but feel sorry for him. He must feel terriblyinadequate to shake hands like that. 

And here it is... 

the worst of the worst, the bottom of the barrel, thehandshake only a mother could love... 

the worst of the worst, the bottom of the barrel, thehandshake only a mother could love... 

the worst of the worst, the bottom of the barrel, thehandshake only a mother could love... 

'The Dead Fish'. 

If handshakes say something about you, 

this one has to say, "You're a limp-wristed pushoverwho's easily battered into submission". 

this one has to say, "You're a limp-wristed pushoverwho's easily battered into submission". 

this one has to say, "You're a limp-wristed pushoverwho's easily battered into submission". 

business.gov.au has the tools and templates to helpplan, start and grow your business, 

business.gov.au has the tools and templates to helpplan, start and grow your business, 

so you don't get off to a shaky start.